Being authentic is an important value for most of the business owners I have contact with.  (Hey it is important to me, so that’s no surprise!),

That generally means having an honest beneficial relationship for both sides, which does not involve any trick sales gimmicks,  fake scarcity, manipulative selling or coercion.

Modern marketing is based on open-ness and authenticity and what is professional has been redefined. We can be professional working in a bedroom upstairs, or from a shed in the garden.  No more black and white corporate uniform as a badge of professionalism – think of Richard Branson in his jumpers.  Or the internet where anyone can write anything about a company via facebook, twitter and blogs.

But marketing and selling that would be most naturally authentic and express the “spark”  is sometimes rejected because of fears that it would not be perceived as “professional”.  This is what stops people writing one to one in a mass email, or recording a video where they talk about what they care about and just enjoy themselves!

Being authentic means being committed and behaving according to our values and what matters to us.  When we are on message everything seems easy and natural.  When things start to become inauthentic there are little niggles, a sense of hollowness and self-consciousness, and a lack of connection to ourselves.

Want some humour and music?  I can’t stop watching!  But I do love the original Alicia Keys’s song “New York” .  See this video from Newport in Wales

and then watch this one. It is the spark that is so compelling.

Authentic? Professional? Enjoyable?

What did you think?